Faith’s Fallowness

By Ben Cachiaras

Some of the letters Mother Teresa wrote to spiritual confidants were made public earlier this year, and they caused quite a stir. There is probably no greater modern icon of Christian spirituality than Teresa of Calcutta. So when some of her heartfelt prayers and confessions were published, lots of folk took notice.

In 1979, the woman from Bulgaria formerly known as Agnes Bojaxhiu, traveled to Oslo, Norway, to receive the Nobel Peace Prize. Working in Calcutta among the poorest of the poor since 1948, Teresa and her Missionaries of Charity taught us to see Jesus in places most would not: in the faces of the poor.

In dying on the cross, Teresa said, God made “himself the hungry one, the naked one, the homeless one. Jesus’ suffering and nakedness is what you and I must find and work to alleviate.” In her acceptance speech she reminded the world that Christ can be seen many places—“Christ in our hearts, Christ in the poor we meet, Christ in the smile we give and in the smile that we receive.”

And yet, just a couple months earlier, in a display of transparency, she confessed in a letter that in terms of her relationship with Christ, all she was feeling was “silence and emptiness.” “I look (for him) but I do not see, listen and do not hear.” From other parts of her letters, we see Teresa feeling as if she lived at a painful distance from God. For years she longed to be closer, to see and feel him more intimately.

She eventually came to see her struggle as a gift, a way to identify with Christ himself. But for years she struggled with a “pain and darkness” in her soul that left her feeling spiritually alone. Her raw prayers and letters reveal cries to God of hurt and longing that seem hardly to square with the tireless servant we became accustomed to seeing behind her public smile.

So is this a contradiction? Is this a crisis of faith? Do her statements of doubt square up with her outward life of devotion, discipline, prayer, and service? Is she a hypocrite? The apparent contradiction leads us to some important considerations about faith.

Doubt . . . and Trust

We sometimes forget what genuine Christian faith looks like. Antagonists see Teresa’s words as evidence that Christianity is a farce. Atheists have jumped in saying this just proves no intelligent person could have faith in God—Teresa knew it but couldn’t bring herself to admit it, they say. But these comments reveal how little they understand about what faith actually looks like. Words like Teresa’s don’t necessarily uncover a secret doubt in God’s existence; they often reveal a deep hunger for him.

There are some troubling aspects about Teresa’s theology. Some reports even indicate she did not believe Christ alone is Lord. But we need not make her our spiritual hero or model to remember that many heroes of Scripture talked to God just like she did. Teresa’s published documents sound a lot like the psalms of Scripture. So many psalms are once-private prayers, venting anger, filled with loneliness, absence, fear and what can only be described as doubt—and yet they are words always offered to the One in whom we ultimately place our trust.

Maybe God gave us the psalms so we would see what real prayer sounds like. I suspect too few of us pray with such raw and real words as “Where are you, God?” “How long will you hide your face from me?” “Why don’t you do something? I’ve been asking and asking, and yet you are silent! Are you there?” But the psalmists did.

If modern journalists read the psalms, they would conclude the writers were having a crisis of faith. If Teresa was unfaithful to Jesus, it wasn’t because she cried out to God. Words like that aren’t unfaithful. They are honest. And they are part of the life of faith.

The news accounts have been accenting the frustration in Teresa’s heart, but I’m struck by the fact that she prayed for hours each day, and served God faithfully for more than 60 years. Some will say it was only because she believed she could earn God’s favor this way. But her notes reveal she wanted a communion with Christ so intimate, an identification so close, that there was no part of her heart or life that was separated from him.

It leaves me asking, “Am I that hungry for God?” In Psalm 42 the writer says his soul longs for God the way a thirsty animal hunts for water. Do we want God that badly?

Mountains . . . and Valleys

Any honest, mature Christian will tell you to expect spiritually fallow periods. Experiencing spiritual dry spells is not an indication of apostasy; it’s proof you’re human. The life of discipleship is not one long honeymoon filled with mountaintop experiences. There are valleys. Sometimes the shadows of depression and spiritual longing mix into a pretty bitter brew. It’s common and ordinary, though not talked about often (or honestly) enough.

In the 1500s, John of the Cross described his difficult period of spiritual struggle as “the dark night of the soul.” Our sense of God’s presence is like rainfall; not every year brings the same amount. There are periods of drought. But they don’t last forever. Just knowing that helps when it’s your turn to walk through the valley.

Feelings . . . and Faith

God is there–even when we cannot feel him. The inability to perceive Christ doesn’t mean he isn’t there. Sometimes God’s presence is palpable, tangible, so real we know it. But few are blessed with visitations like this. Scripture warns us not to base our faith on feelings.

In 1946, when Teresa was 36, she says Christ spoke to her, calling her to abandon teaching and to work instead in the slums of the city, among the sick, dying, beggars, and street children. Not everybody encounters Jesus like that. When we hear about others who do, we may be amazed or skeptical, encouraged or envious. But let’s remember: they are not the norm. And they are not the ultimate test of knowing God, or of God’s knowing us. This is a good thing. If you walk with God, you may never have close encounters of the divine kind, with visions or voices appearing in mystical or startling ways.

Bottom line: Our own feelings are an unreliable guide about the nearness of God. Even Jesus struggled in his moment of estrangement on the cross, saying, “My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?” Indeed, the Father had not ultimately abandoned Jesus; it only seemed that way.

And so it is for us. If you walk with God there will be times when you can’t “feel” anything. But feelings are not required for us to know that God loves us, and that he is there. Each of us has the Scriptures, living and active, through which Jesus visits and speaks to the deepest points of our hearts and minds (Hebrews 4:12). Each of us has prayer, a dynamic communication linkage through which God’s Spirit interprets even our innermost groans and utterances (Romans 8:26, 27). Sometimes our craving for God is the surest sign of his hidden presence.

All of this is a great comfort to those who have experienced some doubt or absence of God in their lives. And we all know who that is: everybody. God is there even when you can’t feel him.

Love . . . and Perseverance

Persevere in prayer and service. Despite her decades-long perception of God’s remoteness, Teresa never let up on her work in his name. Even though we may be concerned about some of Teresa’s beliefs or practices, we would do well to note her example of service. This part of her life is beautiful in part because it demonstrates what real love looks like—“it always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres” (1 Corinthians 13:7).

We live in a day of quitters, among people who wilt at the first sign of opposition or struggle. Teresa languished in her spiritual darkness for years, but she never quit. It was not hypocrisy, pretending to be something on the outside that she was not on the inside. It was love, which hopes and perseveres through service when you don’t feel like it.

Most folk don’t seem to understand this. We tend to think that what we feel is most important. But as Brian Kolodijchuk says in the book he published about her, “To really love someone requires commitment, fidelity and vulnerability. Mother Teresa wasn’t ‘feeling’ Christ’s love, and she could have shut down. But she was up at 4:30 every morning for Jesus and still writing to him, ‘Your happiness is all I want.’”

I doubt Teresa and I would see eye-to-eye on several matters of doctrine. But I need the persevering power she demonstrated. So does every person who is married and who doesn’t always feel like continuing to love. So does anyone whose friends and loved ones require more care and patience than you feel like giving. So does anyone who finds selfless service to Jesus over the long haul difficult or at times not much fun.

Ben Cachiaras, minister with Mountain Christian Church, Joppa, Maryland, is a CHRISTIAN STANDARD contributing editor and member of the Publishing Committee.

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