Your Later Years Can Be Greater Years!

April 23, 2024

David Faust

By David Faust  

Itโ€™s time to take a new look at old age.  

On my sixtieth birthday my grandchildren gave me a serviceberry tree to plant in my backyard. Before that day I didnโ€™t know serviceberry trees existed, but it turns out, they are common in Indiana where I live. If you manage to keep the birds away, by early June the trees produce delicious red berries that taste like tart cherries. My grandkids said, โ€œPapa, we want you to have a serviceberry tree because serving God is important to you.โ€  

I enjoyed my birthday celebration, but unpleasant questions crossed my mind while we planted the tree. I wondered, Now that I have reached age 60, how much service do I have left? Is the best part of my life behind me?  

You may have asked questions like these yourself. But notice what it says in the book of Psalms:  

The righteous will flourish like a palm tree, they will grow like a cedar of Lebanon; planted in the house of the Lord, they will flourish in the courts of our God. They will still bear fruit in old age, they will stay fresh and green (Psalm 92:12-14).  

I like that description of old age. Who wouldnโ€™t want to โ€œflourish like a palm treeโ€ and โ€œgrow like a cedar of Lebanonโ€? I want to โ€œstill bear fruit in old ageโ€ and โ€œstay fresh and greenโ€ as long as possibleโ€”not just wither away and wait to die.  

If you live into your seventies, eighties, or nineties, will you keep serving the Lord and bearing fruit for him? Will you be a faithful Christ follower or an old fuddy-duddy? A cheerful soul or a grumpy old grouch? A hope giver or a dream crusher?  

At this point in my lifeโ€”somewhere between Generation X and Generation X-Rayโ€”Iโ€™m still adjusting to viewing myself as a senior adult. Iโ€™m not a spring chicken anymore. Apparently, Iโ€™m now a fall (or winter) chicken.  

No matter how old you are, there are compelling reasons you should think about aging.  

YOU MIGHT ALREADY BE OLD NOW.  

My wife, Candy, asked our granddaughter Kayla, โ€œDo you think Nana and Papa are old?โ€ Kayla thought a moment and replied, โ€œMedium old.โ€ Candy and I still are trying to figure out when we will cross the line between โ€œmedium oldโ€ and โ€œextremely old.โ€  

The word senior comes from the same root as the word senate (a gathering of wise, seasoned leaders); but from the same root we also get the unflattering word senile. In the workplace, a title like โ€œsenior vice president,โ€ โ€œsenior partner,โ€ or โ€œsenior ministerโ€ earns respect, but some older people bristle at being called โ€œsenior citizensโ€ and consider it a patronizing or degrading designation. Some cultures (and many churches) consider it an honor to be called an โ€œelder,โ€ but for some of us, โ€œelderlyโ€ brings to mind poor health and diminished ability.  

How can we turn our later years into greater years? My book, Not Too Old, offers Bible-based answers to important questions like these:  

  • Aging makes me anxious. How should I deal with my fears?  
  • I donโ€™t want to become a grumpy old grouch! How can I cultivate my sense of humor as I age? 
  • Iโ€™m concerned about the next generation. How can I maximize my influence as a grandparent?  
  • I believe God speaks through Scripture. What does the Bible say about aging?  
  • I wonder about retirement. What should I do when my working career ends? How should I handle my finances before and during my retirement years?  
  • I want to keep growing spiritually. How can I enjoy a fruitful relationship with God as I grow older?  
  • I donโ€™t want to be irrelevant. Where do senior adults fit in the church?  
  • Physical health is important to me. How should I care for my body as I age? 
  • Caregiving worries me. What if I need to take care of my spouse or another loved one during my senior years? What if I am the one who needs care?  
  • Widowhood worries me. What if my spouse dies? How should I deal with grief when friends and family members pass away?  
  • Death is on my radar. What does the Bible say about death and dying? How should I deal with my own mortality and prepare to die well?  

EVEN IF YOU ARE YOUNG NOW, YOU ARE LIKELY (ALTHOUGH NOT GUARANTEED) TO BE OLD YOURSELF SOMEDAY.  

Your senior years will arrive faster than you imagine, and a long life isnโ€™t guaranteed. James says, โ€œYou are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishesโ€ (James 4:14).  

A study by the Stanford Center on Longevity suggests that in the United States, as many as half of todayโ€™s 5-year-olds can expect to live to the age of 100.  No one but God, however, knows exactly how long anyone will live. In the United States, the average lifespan of a man is 73.2 years and 79.1 for a woman. This data matches well with Psalm 90:10, which says, โ€œOur days may come to seventy years, or eighty, if our strength endures.โ€  

YOU KNOW OTHERS WHO ARE OLD.  

Are there older people in your circle of family and friends? Do you have aging parents or grandparents? โ€œLove your neighborโ€ includes the older generation.  

The Law of Moses instructed younger people to rise to their feet when an older person entered the room. โ€œStand up in the presence of the aged, show respect for the elderly and revere your Godโ€ (Leviticus 19:32). The apostle Paul told Timothy, โ€œDo not rebuke an older man harshly, but exhort him as if he were your father. Treat younger men as brothers, older women as mothers, and younger women as sisters, with absolute purityโ€ (1 Timothy 5:1-2). It honors God when we respect the aged.  

AMERICAโ€™S AGING POPULATION CREATES NEW CHALLENGES AND OPPORTUNITIES.  

The U.S. Census Bureau estimates that by 2030, when the last of the Baby Boomer generation moves into older adulthood, more than 71 million residents over age 65 will live in the United States. That number is expected to rise to more than 85 million by 2050โ€”roughly 22 percent of the overall U.S. population. More than one in five Americans will be age 65 and older, and about one in three will be over age 50. Itโ€™s vital for the church to have a robust ministry with children and students as we nurture the next generation, but at the same time, we must not neglect our older neighbors. By 2034, older adults will outnumber children for the first time in U.S. history.  

According to the Pew Research Center, less than half of senior adults participate regularly in any kind of personal or group Bible study. In other words, most of our older neighbors have no meaningful connection to a local church. Jesus said, โ€œOpen your eyes and look at the fields! They are ripe for harvestโ€ (John 4:35). Another translation describes those fields filled with ripened grain as โ€œwhite already to harvest.โ€  

White-haired people are part of the Lordโ€™s harvest field. They need to be connected with Godโ€™s family and deployed into service.  

HEALTHY CHURCHES CARE ABOUT ALL GENERATIONS.  

I want to belong to a church where older people mentor young married couples, love babies in the church nursery, lead small groups, and help to raise up the next generation of Christ followers, elders, and missionaries to fulfill the Great Commission.  

I want to see little kids and older folks interact, share life experiences, learn from each other, worship together, and serve shoulder-to-shoulder across generational lines. Senior adults need the creativity, vision, and enthusiasm of the young, and our younger friends need the experience and wisdom of the old. We shouldnโ€™t pit the up-and-coming generation against the elderly as if they are rivals. It doesnโ€™t have to be โ€œeither/or.โ€ It can be โ€œboth/and.โ€ God cares about the young, the old, and everyone in between.  

I want to be part of a church where โ€œone generation commends your works to anotherโ€ (Psalm 145:4). We can reach the younger generation without disrespecting older people and treating them as irrelevant. โ€œPure and faultlessโ€ religion includes caring both for needy children and for vulnerable adults . . . โ€œlook[ing] after orphans and widows in their distressโ€ (James 1:27).  

I want to be part of a church where older people are not merely coddled and catered to, but are cared for and called to serve . . . where young and old membersโ€”centered on Christ, not selfโ€”share a common mission to love and serve the Lord.  

The serviceberry tree my grandkids helped me plant on my sixtieth birthday has grown in my backyard for nearly a decade. It has endured harsh winters and summer droughts. It displays tender pink blossoms in the spring, and its green leaves turn purplish-brown and drop to the ground in the fall. Through all the different seasons, the treeโ€™s roots have kept growing deeper, and the older it gets, the more fruit the tree bears. I want to be like that, too. What about you?  

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This article is adapted from David Faustโ€™s new book, Not Too Old: Turning Your Later Years into Greater Years (College Press, 2024), which is available as a paperback book, audiobook, or e-book through CollegePress.com or Amazon.ย 

David serves as senior associate minister with East 91st Street Christian Church in Indianapolis, Ind., and as a contributing editor for Christian Standard. He has written a weekly lesson application for our Bible study material for several years. Previously, he was editor of The Lookout magazine. 

David Faust
Author: David Faust

David Faust serves as the Associate Minister at East 91st Street Christian Church in Indianapolis, Indiana.


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Holly Miller
1 year ago

Great article!!

Bill Griffin
1 year ago

The annual Seniors by the Sea at Mid-Atlantic Christian University had one of the best programs I have ever attended dealing with this issue. They invited speakers who would give examples of what “senior saints” were doing at their congregations. It was SO CHALLENGING! Thanks for this book. I look forward to reading it! I am trying my best to “wear out” rather than “rust out.”

1 year ago

Live While We are Alive!

The title implies that we should do more than just survive,
We are promised we can do more than just breathe; we can thrive.

Our hearts must be filled with a burning sense of relevance,
Knowing, because of God, we can have living significance!

Iโ€™ve known people in their fifties, that were the living dead.
They were hiding in lifeโ€™s shadows with a life full of dread.

Dull lifelessness need never be,
We can have joyfulness for all to see.

Spirited living is not a matter of oneโ€™s age,
Nor is it dependent on earning a living wage.

Itโ€™s a matter of knowing and feeling Godโ€™s purpose for living,
Biblically speaking, there is a connection between purpose and thriving.

Read this verse about the death of King David,
When His purpose was over, His life faded.

โ€œFor David, after he had served the purpose of God in his own generation, fell asleep and was laid with his fathers and saw corruptionโ€ (Acts 13:36).

Weโ€™ve all been uniquely Spiritually gifted,
And to its utilization, if we are committed,

Our moods will be noticeably lifted,
And our joy will be upwardly lifted.

And God will then be glorified,
As our reason for living will have be verified!

LaVon

1 year ago

โ€œLiving on Purposeโ€ … Dave Faustโ€™s new book Not Too Old has a lively message for everyone. Hereโ€™s what it said to me: CommonChristianity.blogspot.com.

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