By Michael C. Mack
What”s the most important element on your meeting agenda? People! If you make it a priority to build genuine relationships with your group, class, or team, you”ll find your meetings will be more efficient and successful. Here are five practical ideas:
“ยข Don”t plan to start on time. If you open your meetings with an agenda item or Bible study questions, you”re prioritizing program over people. Plan on a casual start to your group by asking people about their day or week.
“ยข Include food! Food seems to break down walls of resistance. Eating with your group around a table helps to build a tight-knit community.
“ยข End on time, but don”t end on time. Be sure to finish the “official meeting”ย with time left over for group members to hang around and enjoy each other”s company.
“ยข Plan for fun. Set aside the agenda one night and enjoy a potluck, or grill burgers, or have a game night. Go bowling. Hang out at the park. Hold a chili cook-off. Just be sure to plan it during the time you normally gather, since group members have prioritized that time each week.
“ยข Plan other activities. Go on a camping trip or to the lake. Go out to eat on Sunday after church. Pick a random Friday night and have a girls” night out. If you have children, ask the dads to take care of the kids that night. Then switch the next week and ask the moms to watch the kids for a dads” night out.
Author: Michael C. Mack
Michael C. Mack is editor of Christian Standard. He has served in churches in Ohio, Indiana, Idaho, and Kentucky. He has written more than 25 books and discussion guides as well as hundreds of magazine, newspaper, and web-based articles.
I don’t know if author Michael Mack meant church services to be included within the realm of “meetings” that he’s advising us about, but we actually use the first three of his suggestions in our services.
We believe it”โขs important to our friends that they feel like our meeting place is like home, a place where they can hang out for hours.
We don”โขt want the kind of church where everyone disappears as soon as “amen”ย is said.
This is crucial because of the difficulty here in Davao City, Philippines of asking people to attend multiple weekly meetings, such as a Wednesday night service or small groups.
People tend to work very long hours, traffic is awful at night, & public transportation is very slow, so we only ask them to attend one meeting (unless they want to serve in another of our three weekly meetings).
Therefore, we want that one meeting to have a lot of impact.
Our Sunday PM meetings often last seven hours.
Plus the fact that many people in our meetings are desperately poor”ยฆSo we feel obligated to feed our friends. ๐