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Child sponsorship programs are changing lives””in distant lands and right here in the United States.

Discover the facts. Listen to the testimonies. And realize how this is happening.

By Doug Priest

“Our people sponsor nearly 400 children, and congregational giving continues to grow. In fact, the more we give to others outside our walls, the more our general fund has grown.”
“”Steve Reeves, Connection Pointe Christian Church (Brownsburg, Indiana)

Alice was conceived out of wedlock. She never knew her father. After the birth, her mother entrusted Alice to her grandmother and moved to another country. Alice lived in the Mathare Valley slum of Nairobi, Kenya. Her home was a single small room that she shared with her grandmother, two sisters, one brother, and two cousins. Her grandmother had no regular job, so she washed the clothes of neighbors to feed herself and the children. Many nights they went to bed hungry.

The Mathare Valley slum is a dark, destitute place. Into this area of just over a square mile are crammed 1 million people. They live in squalor, in shanties just 12-feet square. The homes do not have indoor plumbing, and few have electricity. Thievery, begging, and prostitution are some of the most common ways of securing food. A few lucky slum dwellers have regular employment. Most struggle to scrape together money by selling bars of soap or scavenged vegetables on the side of the road. Many struggle from hunger; there is little chance to pay school fees, so the children do not go to school. The hopelessness of the situation leads many to escape reality through glue sniffing or getting drunk on the poisonous local moonshine.

One day a social worker stopped by Alice”s house and encouraged her grandmother to consider letting Alice enroll in a private Christian school. “But how will I pay the tuition? I cannot afford her school uniform, let alone the books and supplies she would need. I would be happy if Alice could go to school, but it is impossible.”

“Maybe not,” replied the social worker. “Because Alice”s mother lives in Tanzania and she does not know her father, she can probably be sponsored so that her needs will be covered. In addition, she will be able to get food at the school. The Missions of Hope School is a Christian school, so she will be taught from the Bible. Her teachers will be Christian and they will care for her. Many children go to the school from this area. You can tell from all the green skirts and checkered blouses that you see the girls wearing on their way to and from school every day. We would like you to pay a little bit””whatever you can””but most of Alice”s costs will be covered.”

The best child sponsorship programs are combined with a host of other ministries so that an entire community can be transformed. While it is important for a child to receive food and clothing, it is also important for the child to receive a quality education. It is critical for the child”s parents or guardians to secure employment, perhaps through a microfinance program. The child needs to be part of a loving Christian community””a newly planted church, for example. Preventive health care means that the child will not have to suffer from malaria or worms. HIV/AIDS support groups lead to improved emotional health. Small farms, even single plants raised in pots, can add nutritional value to a bleak diet.

 

New Partnerships

Child sponsorship has been around for decades, but in recent years a new element has been added to the program. Formerly, a sponsor would individually determine to sponsor a child with the agency selecting the location and the child. Today with a church-based child sponsorship program, a congregation in America partners with a church in Ecuador1 or India2, or partners with a mission working in a slum like Nairobi.3 The church has a sense of fellowship and bonding with a sister church or neighborhood. People from the American church travel to the sister church and get involved in direct ministry there, and they can meet the children they sponsor. The ties become personal. Who is ministering to whom? Everybody is changed.

 

Urban Growth

The United Nations projects that by the year 2050, two-thirds of the world will be urban, up from the one-half that is urban today. By that time, fully one-half of the world”s population will be squatters or urban slum dwellers. Mission”s new frontier is the urban poor. Most of the world”s urban poor live in Africa, Asia, and Latin America. They are the largest unreached people group in the world, and many of them are vulnerable children. Child sponsorship as a part of a holistic ministry strategy is leading to church planting movements and the transformation of communities.

 

Working Together

One common feature of these child sponsorship ministries in Ecuador, India, and Kenya is that dozens of U.S. congregations are working together with one another to transform communities. What if the Christian churches banded together and focused sponsorship of children and communities in other areas of the world? What if our family of churches was known for establishing church planting movements, transforming communities, and radically changing the world? We can do this. Dream it.

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1Stadia, a church planting agency, links U.S. churches with Compassion International in Ecuador and other countries in Latin America. They hope to be sponsoring 4,000 children through local churches by the end of the year.

2Central India Christian Mission”s child sponsorship program reaches nearly 5,000 children in India.

3CMF International”s church-based child sponsorship program currently sponsors 7,000 children in the Mathare Valley slum of Nairobi, Kenya, working in partnership with Missions of Hope International.

 

Doug Priest is executive director of CMF International and a contributing editor to CHRISTIAN STANDARD. 

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Other Voices

“When we determined to ask our church family to sponsor hundreds of children in the slums of Nairobi, we didn”t discuss whether or not some might redirect funds normally given to our church ministries””but the question rattled in all our minds. I”m glad we didn”t allow that fear to dissuade us, because it was unfounded. The opportunity to be involved in measurable life change inspired high levels of generosity. Even if we had lost some income, I would say it was worth it””but we didn”t. If we trust people to do amazing and generous things, they often come through.”
“”Eddie Lowen, West Side Christian Church (Springfield, Illinois)


“Traveling to Africa allowed me to see firsthand the huge impact child sponsorship can have on a child”s life, an entire family and, in fact, an entire community. I became convinced child sponsorship is a key to transformation, a kingdom tool God uses to bring about huge change in Africa. What I didn”t anticipate is how God would use the same tool of child sponsorship to bring transformation and his will among our own people here in the U.S. The personal touch and ongoing investment in a real child”s life creates a lasting bond; beyond giving generically to “˜missions,” we give to people we know and care about.

“In the past I wondered if sponsoring children would have a negative financial impact on our overall giving, harming other aspects of our mission. Not anymore. It turns out God”s Word is right, and God truly blesses generosity! Today we sponsor more than 1,000 children all over the world, and we have seen how, instead of drying up giving, it genuinely primes the pump for generosity. Some who were not giving have begun to experience the joy of kingdom contribution through child sponsorship. Others have found a way to do more, beyond what they would have done. Through it all, God is not only changing Africa, he”s changing us.”
“”Ben Cachiaras, Mountain Christian Church (Joppa, Maryland)


“We all love missions, but we also have bills to pay. There is nothing wrong with sacrifice; it”s part of Christianity. But the first concern for me, and most church leaders when it comes to supporting something outside our own organization, is about what we will have to do without because of it. There is a limited supply when it comes to the church budget.

“That is why child sponsorship is such a great concept. We instantly increased our missions giving by more than $300,000 a year and didn”t give a dime from the church budget. We just signed people up to do a little more””to give up something small””sponsor a child. And we”re doing it again. Not only does it not cost the church, it adds the value of children and the value of missions to your organization in ways people will buy into. They are never quite the same people when they have a picture of a child on their refrigerator. Instant growth, instant heart, instant discipleship””it”s great.”
“”Tim Harlow, Parkview Christian Church (Orland Park, Illinois)


“Our church has been involved in promoting child sponsorships since before I began my ministry here over 10 years ago. My wife, Sandy, and I are involved because, after visiting India on two different occasions and seeing the children and the children”s home, the prompting of the Spirit was so strong that there was no way we could not be involved. Our daughter also sponsors a child. Being able to see the happiness and joy in these children who have been rescued from an unthinkable life by only a few dollars a month is a humbling experience. It”s also absolutely overwhelming to see what the people are able to do with that money, and it”s amazing to know that every dime goes right to the orphans. There are simply not enough good things I can say about this ministry and this opportunity to help change the world for a child in India. I never hesitate when it comes to promoting this ministry from the pulpit because I believe in my heart that, of all the things we do both locally and globally through the mission and ministry of our church, few things compare to the significance of our living link partnership with CICM and the support of these orphans.”Â 

“”Chris Philbeck, Mount Pleasant Christian Church (Greenwood, Indiana)


“I hate to admit this. It probably reveals a bit about my lack of faith, but when Eastside decided aggressively to raise the value of child sponsorship, I secretly wondered if it would negatively impact giving to the rest of the church. I”m happy to report two things: first, Eastside families and individuals are now sponsoring more than 1,000 children in the Mathare Valley of Nairobi, Kenya, totaling more than $400,000 a year being given in child sponsorships. Second, there has been zero impact on the rest of the giving to our church. In fact, I believe just the opposite has occurred””the spirit of generosity has only grown. I”m now embarrassed by my fears, but so thankful we faced them. So many kids now have hope and a future.”Â 

“”Gene Appel, Eastside Christian Church (Anaheim, California)

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Show Love, Sponsor a Child

Here”s how you can get more information about the child sponsorship opportunities mentioned in this article.

 

Central Christian India Mission
This mission is the lifeline to more than 4,500 destitute children throughout India. The mission provides food, vitamins, school supplies, and fees at a cost of $20 per child each month. For more information:

Central India Christian Mission
9425 North Meridian Street
Suite 281
Indianapolis, IN 46260
http://www.indiamission.org/sponsor_child.html

 

Christian Missionary Fellowship International
CMF combines child sponsorship with the Community Health Evangelism strategy to help lift children and their families from the stranglehold of poverty. Schooling, Bible teaching, medical attention, and meals are provided to children in four different communities in Africa, For more information:

CMF International
5525 East 82nd Street
Indianapolis, IN 46250
http://cmfi.org/whatwedo/childsponsorship

Stadia
Stadia combines child sponsorship with church planting in a partnership with Compassion International in several countries throughout South America. For more information:
Stadia
2050 Main Street
Suite 400
Irvine, CA 92614
http://www.stadia.cc/2012/networks/bring-good-news-to-south-america/

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