Leading Through the Hand-Off: Lessons in Pastoral Transition
With careful planning, clear communication, financial foresight, and sensitivity to personalities, churches can not only survive transitions, they can thrive through them.
By Mark Moore
My wife still laughs at me about this. When I was in my early 20s, I tried to do what I called a “sleep fast.” I knew that physicians could reduce the number of hours they needed for sleep simply by pushing through and forcing their minds and bodies to adjust. So I tried it. It worked, but only to make me grumpy, foggy, and less productive. It turns out that my body needs eight hours of sleep every night. To this day, it’s rare that I don’t get that sleep because I realize that I am more productive, more pleasant, and more spiritual after a good night’s sleep. What fueled this ill-advised “sleep-fast” wasn’t wisdom but comparison—that silent thief of contentment that had me measuring my worth against colleagues who supposedly thrived on five hours of sleep. Paradoxically, they also got less done with five hours of sleep than I was getting with eight. When I surrendered to my God-designed need for eight hours of sleep, I discovered a paradoxical truth: by embracing limitation, I unlocked capacity to accomplish what God intended, in the way he intended.
The common lament, ”I wish there were more hours in a day,” reveals our culture’s troubled relationship with time. Not me. I am exhausted by the end of the day. I don’t need a 30-hour day to drive me to an early grave. God, in his infinite wisdom, designed our days and hours with perfect precision.
The Gift of Sabbath
This principle doesn’t just work each day; it works each week with what the Bible calls “Sabbath.” The Sabbath, one of God’s greatest gifts to humanity, was so important that God embedded it in the law. In fact, it’s one of the big 10. Consider this striking detail: Within the 317 words comprising the Ten Commandments, one-third focuses solely on the Sabbath command, while another third addresses idolatry. This divine emphasis speaks volumes—these two commands, so interconnected, consume two-thirds of God’s foundational law. In our modern context, this ancient emphasis proves prophetic, as our restlessness often stems from our idolatrous pursuit of success and security. The modern American paradox is painfully evident: we worship our work, work at our play, and merely play at our worship—a tragic inversion of divine priorities. As it turns out, the ancient emphasis on these two commands is desperately needed in our modern world.
The Sabbath principle isn’t merely Mosaic legislation, but Edenic design—not just a command delivered at Sinai, but a rhythm woven into creation’s very fabric. When God rested on the seventh day, he wasn’t recovering from exhaustion but rather establishing a pattern for human flourishing. This divine rhythm echoes through creation like a heartbeat, as essential to our well-being as gravity is to our physical world. Moreover, Sabbath is not merely recuperation, it is celebration. While preachers often wax eloquent about the oppressive oral traditions added to Jewish Sabbath regulations, they fail to recognize that Jews do not perceive the Sabbath as an oppressive obligation. It is a highlight of their week they look forward to and feel sorry for the rest of us who miss this rest.
Curiously, this principle is quite similar to the principle of the tithe. Perhaps you’ve heard in your own church a pastor teach that you can get more with 90% of your income after returning 10% to God. Those statistics are quite close to the Sabbath principle. You can get more accomplished in six days after giving one day to God. That one day represents 14% of your time whereas a tithe represents 10% of your income. There seems to be a pattern here.
Struggling with Sabbath
Yet despite this clear biblical mandate, I’ve struggled with Sabbath. It’s no mystery why, and it’s certainly not noble. Here is the underbelly of my workaholism (my apologies if this is too real or raw): I don’t believe God. I believe in God; I just don’t believe him when he says he will recognize and validate me. Like many typical type-A males, I get my validation through my work. There is nothing wrong with needing validation. We all do. That’s part of our created nature. My black hole of verification, however, has been dug by an idolatry of individualism (not unlike Eve’s), wanting to be my own God and provide for myself what he has already promised—to see me, know me, love me, and affirm me. To fight this lifelong current of self-imposed slavery, I’ve adopted a simple but effective rule: If I cannot accomplish my to-do list in six days, then I have allowed something or someone to become my Lord other than Jesus. After all, he is the one who ordained me to rest and invited me to find that rest in him (Matthew 11:28–30).
Don’t be surprised if you struggle with Sabbath or even wrestle with Jesus over it. The issue of the Sabbath was the single greatest contention in Jesus’s earthly ministry. He got in trouble over Sabbath more than any other single issue. In one particularly poignant encounter, his disciples were plucking heads of grain while sauntering through a farmer’s field. The Pharisees called “foul,” not for thievery (since this practice was prescribed) but for violating the unwritten rules of what constitutes work.
According to their traditions, the disciples violated the rules of the Sabbath in three ways, by this one simple act. When they plucked the heads of grain, they were guilty of harvesting. When they rubbed them in their hands to loosen the seeds, they were accused of threshing. And when they blew off the chaff to leave only the grain, they are blamed for winnowing. Ridiculous, right?! For sure. Jesus called them on it with a profound declaration: “The Sabbath was made for man, not man for the Sabbath” (Mark 2:27, New International Version). It’s not meant to be a burden but a blessing. What he said next, however, was not merely profound; it bordered on blasphemy: “So the Son of Man is lord even of the Sabbath” (Mark 2:28). But is he? Is he the Lord of your Sabbath?
The Cultural Challenge and Practical Solutions
We are a generation drowning in anxiety yet starving for rest—a contradiction evidenced by the 35% of Americans who move through life in a fog of sleep deprivation (FastStats: Sleep in Adults,” Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, May 15, 2024). Which is stunning given that we have plenty of excess time we could be sleeping. After all, the average American spends over three hours on their smartphone each day. That’s in addition to two and a half hours on computers (excluding work), and another three hours watching TV. All told, that’s over 10 hours (per datareportal.com). These hours offer untapped potential for transformation—sacred moments we could reclaim for sleep, prayer, reflection, and the very practices that would soothe rather than stimulate our frayed nervous systems.
Our culture celebrates busyness and equates rest with laziness. Our constant connectivity has made true rest even more elusive. We’re always available, always “on,” and increasingly burning out. The statistics are sobering—a third of American adults are sleep-deprived, not because they’re too busy, but because they’re too preoccupied to truly rest.
Here are four simple practices that have helped me make progress.
Sacred Scheduling. Carve your Sabbath into the granite of your calendar and protect it relentlessly. You can ensure you rest with one simple act: Turn off your phone and viciously reject answering email. Warning: you are going to be insulted by how quickly you realize you are replaceable and irrelevant to those you crave to be necessary for. Most of our workaholism is not due to our dictatorial bosses who demand relentless access. Most of us work when we should rest because we need to be needed.
Holy Boundaries. If you change your availability, you will likely need to let some people know that you will not be answering your phone, editing their documents, replying to their emails, or hopping on to a Zoom call. It would be rare for someone who truly cares about you (including an employer) to object to the boundaries that will keep you healthy and productive.
Communal Celebration. The beauty of Sabbath is not merely our connection with God; it’s our connection with others. These two are not mutually exclusive. As we connect with others, they help us experience God in community in ways that expand our awareness of and appreciation for the divine. Our time with family, particularly our spiritual family, fuels our rest for worship.
Freedom in Grace. Don’t reduce Sabbath to a law. Sabbath should be the best day of your week, not a restriction for our weekend. There will be seasons when you miss a week and seasons where your weekend is extended to a week. By celebrating the gift of God rather than obliging ourselves to a rule of religion, we will free ourselves for true rest and worship regardless of where it lands in our schedule.
A Countercultural Commitment
In our anxiety-saturated society, embracing Sabbath is revolutionary—a countercultural declaration that we trust God’s sufficiency more than our own striving. When we embrace Sabbath, we declare our dependence on a sovereign God who neither slumbers nor sleeps. We shift our worth from productivity to community, recognizing we ourselves are cherished children of God. As we practice this counter-cultural rhythm of rest, we model a different way of being, one that points to the ultimate rest found only in Christ.
As someone who has moved from Sabbath-breaking to Sabbath-embracing, I can testify that God’s command to rest is truly a gift. When we stop trying to be our own saviors and trust in God’s provision, we find the rest our souls so desperately need. In a world that never stops, maybe the most counter-cultural thing Christians can do is to regularly cease our striving and remember that the God who rested on the seventh day is waiting to meet us in the margin.
It is there—in the sacred margins we guard from invasion—that we discover the magnificent foretaste of our eternal inheritance: the soul-deep rest found only in Christ. The author of Hebrews connects Sabbath rest with our eternal hope: “There remains, then, a Sabbath-rest for the people of God” (Hebrews 4:9). When we practice weekly rest, we’re not just following a command—we’re rehearsing for eternity.
Mark Moore is teaching pastor with Christ’s Church of the Valley in Peoria, Arizona.
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