What people believe really matters, according to a 2017 Canadian study of 22 churches and more than 2,000 churchgoers. Churches that adhere to conservative theology are more likely to grow than those that do not, and people who attend growing churches reported praying more often and reading their Bibles more often than those who attend declining churches, the study showed. What churches teach impacts the spiritual practices of their attendees and, in turn, the health of the church.
Our 2020 annual church survey asked church leaders this question:
How much does your church emphasize the following personal and family faith practices?
- regular worship attendance
- giving generously
- personal Bible study
- group Bible study
- talking about oneโs faith with those who arenโt part of your church and/or believers
- parents talking with children about faith
- living out oneโs faith in all aspects of oneโs daily life
The response options included โnot at all,โ โa little,โ โsome,โ โquite a bit,โ and โa lot.โ
We were seeking to learn the areas of faith that churches emphasize the most with the understanding that โwhat gets recognized gets repeated; what gets celebrated becomes a habit,โ as author and consultant Leslie Yerkes said. It follows that churchgoers are more apt to do what they hear emphasized by their church leaders.
In looking collectively at these seven faith practices, 91 percent of megachurches said they emphasized them โa lotโ or โquite a bit,โ the highest figure among the six church size categories. Among large and medium churches, 85 percent emphasized these faith practices โa lotโ or โquite a bit,โ followed by emerging megachurches (84 percent), small churches (83 percent), and very small churches (74 percent).
In general, the larger the church, the more likely they were to report spending time emphasizing these personal and family faith practices, which seemed to reinforce the findings of the Canadian study cited at the outset.
The Most Emphasized Faith Practices
Overall, the top three faith practices churches emphasized โa lotโ and โquite a bitโ were โliving out oneโs faith in all aspects of lifeโ (93 percent), โpersonal Bible studyโ (91 percent), and โregular worship attendanceโ (89 percent). The least emphasized was โtalking about oneโs faith with those who arenโt part of your family and/or believers,โ with only 75 percent of churches saying they emphasized this โa lotโ or โquite a bit.โ
The Impact of Church Size on What Is Emphasized
Churches from four of the six size categories indicated they emphasized โliving out oneโs faithโ more than any otherโit was the spiritual practice they highlighted the most. Only large and very small churches emphasized a different faith practice more.
Overall, the top three faith practices for each church size category were distinctly different. Hereโs a summary of the faith practices the highest percentage of churches in each size category said they emphasized โa lotโ or โquite a bitโ:
Very small churches (99 or fewer in average worship attendance) focused the most on the following faith practices: personal Bible study (88 percent), living out oneโs faith (87 percent), and regular worship attendance (87 percent).
Small churches (averaging 100 to 249 weekly)โliving out oneโs faith (94 percent), personal Bible study (93 percent), and regular worship attendance (88 percent).
Medium churches (averaging 250 to 499)โliving out oneโs faith (94 percent), regular worship attendance (90 percent), and personal Bible study (90 percent).
Large churches (500 to 999)โregular worship attendance (92 percent), group Bible study such as small groups or Bible classes (92 percent), and personal Bible study (91 percent).
Emerging megachurches (1,000 to 1,999)โliving out oneโs faith (93 percent), personal Bible study (90 percent), and group Bible study (90 percent).
Megachurches (2,000 or more)โliving out oneโs faith (100 percent), regular worship attendance (93 percent), and personal Bible study (93 percent).
The Least Emphasized Faith Practices
The least-emphasized faith practices were โtalking about oneโs faith with those who arenโt part of your church and/or believersโ (75 percent), โparents talking with children about faithโ (76 percent), and โgiving generouslyโ (78 percent). The gap between the most-emphasized and least-emphasized faith practice was 17 percentage points (93 percent vs. 75 percent).
The fact that churches are more likely to stress โregular church attendanceโ than โtalking about oneโs faithโ is concerning. Granted, the frequency of church attendance has declined for more than a decade, but maybe weโre โmajoring in the minorsโ by stressing church attendance more than sharing our faith.
This reality might help to explain why many churches are not growing. This finding likely also reflects an increased focus on an โattractionalโ model of church over the last 20-plus years rather than a โmissionalโ model of ministry.
Another concerning finding from this research is the lesser emphasis on โparents talking with children about faith.โ Deuteronomy 6:4-9 is a portion of liturgy known as the Shema which emphasizes the need to worship God alone and to love God with our whole being. The Israelites were called to repeat these two truths again and again to their children. Parents were supposed to โtalk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get upโ (v. 7).
A September 2019 Barna report found, โNearly two-thirds of U.S. 18โ29-year-olds who grew up in church have withdrawn from church involvement as an adult after having been active as a child or teen.โ Therefore, itโs vital for churches to create tangible tools to better equip parents to talk with their children about matters of faith. These tools could expand and evolve as children become teenagers, so that faith discussions can transition from โmilkโ to โmeatโ to better ensure young adultsโ faith is solid and steadfast as they transition into adulthood. This would help to decrease the high percentage of young adults who leave the faith after growing up in church.
What gets recognized gets repeated; what gets celebrated becomes a habit. What is your church recognizing and celebrating the most in your gatherings and groups?







Very well written! Timely! Useful! It distresses me that our children 18-29 frequently move to other currently larger churches, outside our fellowship, to worship with people their age, but with leaders that are ill-equipped for growth.
There, they sometimes encounter teachings that are also inadequate both in doctrine and with less emphasis on evangelical activity. At least some of us are now older grandparents, watching and waiting, for the โparents talking with children about faith.โ Blessings, Tom Little, Goshen, Indiana CC